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Jenn
A Heart of Loving-Kindness
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 Re: Feb 8th Heather, that is so unbelievably hard. Sorry your family has to go through this!
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Married 6/9/01
Began TTC 2004, diagnosis- PCOS
Sweet angel Tyler Michael 12/20-12/26/07 (preterm 25 wks)
Alexis Faith "Lexi" born December 22, 2009 (IUI)
Baby girl due July, 2012
"Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing!" Is. 43:18
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JMSensenig
A Heart of Guidance
Gender: Female
Joined: Wed Feb 01, 2006 9:08 pm
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Location: Pennsylvania
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Re: Feb 8th {{{{{{{{{{Heather}}}}}}}}}}
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Through Embryo Adoption I have learned:
Because of the LORD’s great love we are not consumed,
for his compassions never fail.
They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.
I say to myself “The LORD is my portion;
therefore I will wait for him.”
Lamentations 3:22-24
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Sarah
A Heart of Virtuousness
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Re: Feb 8th (((Heather)))
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DH: All good!
Me: Endo
1st IUI w/injectibles 8/10-BFN
2nd IUI w/injectibles 10/10-BFN
No longer TTC
2 Beautiful ( not-so-little-anymore) babies through adoption
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angelwings
A Heart of Virtuousness
Gender: Female
Joined: Wed May 28, 2008 12:14 am
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Location: Beautiful Las Vegas
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Re: Feb 8th how are you doing Heather, how is o?
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2 vasectomy reversals(him), 2 lysis of adhesions(me)
3 Stepkids
Miracle: Elijah Jadon 5/12/10
Miracle: Ryder Kade 10/4/11
Adopting through kinship foster care, K.
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hleannie
A Heart of Loving-Kindness
Gender: Female
Joined: Thu Sep 01, 2005 9:28 pm
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Location: Indiana
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Re: Feb 8th O is gone for the weekend, and I am ok on the surface, but feeling vaguely depressed/despondent on the inside.  It's not helping that O's behavior has been horrendous this past week, so I am feeling mixed feelings about him being gone this weekend. Part of me is relieved, and the rest of me feels horribly guilty for feeling relieved.
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daughter_of_faith
A Heart of Patience
Gender: Female
Joined: Sat Apr 18, 2009 9:21 pm
Posts: 6739
Location: Oregon
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Re: Feb 8th I understand where you are coming from, Heather. Those guilt feelings come to all of from time to time. Continued hugs and prayers.
(I told DH this morning that this situation is one reason I have hesitations about foster care).
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DS #1 5/2003
Three years in the making, DS #2 arrived 2/2011
DS #3 has arrived!!! 12/2012
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princessinthepea
A Heart of Patience
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Re: Feb 8th ((((HUGS))))
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angelwings
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Location: Beautiful Las Vegas
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Re: Feb 8th hleannie wrote: O is gone for the weekend, and I am ok on the surface, but feeling vaguely depressed/despondent on the inside. It's not helping that O's behavior has been horrendous this past week, so I am feeling mixed feelings about him being gone this weekend. Part of me is relieved, and the rest of me feels horribly guilty for feeling relieved. sounds like its part of the survival mechanism... I think its just fine to feel relieved. Doesn't make you a bad person, or a bad mom... it helps make it easier for everyone when the separation occurs. ((hugs)) what a difficult time.
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2 vasectomy reversals(him), 2 lysis of adhesions(me)
3 Stepkids
Miracle: Elijah Jadon 5/12/10
Miracle: Ryder Kade 10/4/11
Adopting through kinship foster care, K.
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hleannie
A Heart of Loving-Kindness
Gender: Female
Joined: Thu Sep 01, 2005 9:28 pm
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Location: Indiana
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Re: Feb 8th (UPDATE) We had a crisis last night that resulted in my DFS leaving our home this morning. I had to ask CW to remove him from our home because of his continued aggressive behavior toward Danny (my 7 yr old). I'm not sure why Danny became the target for his emotional and behavioral venting, but it became an unsafe situation that I just couldn't tolerate. CW decided to just move him to bio dad's a few days early, so that's where he is now. I am so tired, emotionally drained, and angry at the system that failed a little boy who had come so far only to have to start over.
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phoenix
A Heart of Fellowship
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Location: Southern California
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Re: Feb 8th Oh Heather  I'm so sorry you, your family and O are going through this. I know this has to be hard on you. Praying for God's peace and comfort for you and your family and O.
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Me: PCOS, 1 tube
DH: all good
Two precious angels in Heaven
No longer ttc
Approved for Domestic Infant Adoption 12/10
1 failed match 9/26/11 
Matched 10/5/2012 
DD Ariana born 10/5/2012
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Lainey
A Heart of Compassion
Gender: Female
Joined: Sun Dec 19, 2004 11:44 pm
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Re: Feb 8th {{{Heather}}} Praying for you, dear friend.
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DH: 42
DX: azoospermia/Sertoli-cell only; endo, mild PCOS and blocked tube
TX: 2007: 4 DIUIs that were unsuccessful; 2009: 1 FET/EA that resulted in our little miracle; 2013: 1 failed FET/EA
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karenh
A Heart of Loving-Kindness
Gender: Female
Joined: Tue Sep 06, 2005 12:43 am
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Location: top of VA
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Re: Feb 8th I am so sorry it came to this, my heart breaks for him and his loss of a stable loving home, and for you that lost a son that had a chance to be more with you than his bio parents.
He may have acted out out of anger over the situation, it's hard for kids with unstable lives to handle change well and they act out in a fight for control.
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Psalm 113:9 "He settles the barren woman in her home as a happy mother of children. Praise the LORD"
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Smilin93076
A Heart of Compassion
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Re: Feb 8th I am sorry, Heather! That just breaks my heart, for all of you and for DFS!
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Currently on hold; In God I rest, His timing is best!
Wait for the Lord; Be strong, and let your heart take courage; Yes, wait for the Lord. Psalm 27:14
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princessinthepea
A Heart of Patience
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Re: Feb 8th Words can not express my sorrow of this situation. I feel so sad for you and especially DFS. Will continue to pray for all!
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HopeinHim
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Re: Feb 8th How hard! Praying for you and for all involved. And just wanted to say, that even though things ended badly, remember how much good you did for this little one. We never know how our influence will work in someone's life and he may not appreciate it until later but you were a stable loving person for him.
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TTC- +5 years
High FSH
3 IUI's/2 Cancelled IVF's
Many, many transfers...
Two angels: 03/19/11, 12/27/11
Approved for DIA!!!
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